Just Talk.

[Crazy Rich]

I know pretty much 99% of the time women are just being nice and aren't interested...

But I can't help but be curious when I say pretty basic conversation stuff and this one woman does this nervous laughter with a smile on more and more of a daily basis lately.

Nah it's probably just my imagination really.

[Immortan Jonesy]

As someone who usually behave in some socially awkward ways, I've been on that escenario sometimes. There were occasions when it wasn't my imagination though.

[Crazy Rich]

Well it's not like I can just ask and find out since she's the cashier of a bakery so rejection would mean going in to get my spicy beef empanadas would be a hell of a lot more awkward and I really need those to get through a work day.

[BlueMarsalis79]

Or you could just ask if she'd like to have coffee with you sometime.

[Crazy Rich]

Nah.

The spice must flow.

[BlueMarsalis79]

[Crazy Rich]

But muh spicy beef empanadas.

[Kradan]

Where's the beef ?

[Immortan Jonesy]

Oh come on, nobody's perfect, and if she says no, it doesn't have to be so hard. Arm yourself with courage and continue buying your empanadas. You are a human being just like her. Said that..

[Kradan]

Is that how you gonna ask weed for a date ?

[Crazy Rich]

If you only knew the power of the spicy beef empanadas.

[Immortan Jonesy]

I have tried empanadas with minced meat, onion, egg, olives and spices. They are good, veeeeeery good, so I can relate to you. 

Is that how you gonna ask weed for a date ?

I have no idea 🤷🏼‍♂️



... but even if she rejected me I would continue smoking her. 😍

[Crazy Rich]

So I was actually just talking.

I'm PRETTY SURE she's just being nice but I also can't help but be a little autistic.

[[cancerblack]]

I'm gunna go against what's been said. There's two rules that are pretty much universal (although there's exceptions to everything).

1) Don't ask people out on dates, while they're on the clock. Basic stuff.

2) If a woman is nice to you (a dude) while working, and she works in the service industry, it's because she's being payed to be nice. In my experience, café staff, wait staff etc, especially the women, get hit on enough that if they genuinely think you're cute, they'll initiate a conversation beyond the role they're being payed to do. Because you're also on the spectrum, I'll clarify that small talk is not that.

However, being friendly is free, and you never know for sure. Just don't be That Customer.

[Kradan]

True that