QuoteIf you still think it's as easy for them as just walking to the police station then it doesn't seem like you paid much attention to the information.
I paid quite a lot of attention, actually. The husband has to leave for his job or for an errand sooner or later. Perfect timing to enter police protection.
QuoteYou can't sympathise with a woman living in fear of her life or her children's life if she tries to leave?
Children throw a whole other loophole into the situation. But I can't sympathize with people who can't do a damn thing for themselves. Sure, they're being abused. But it's a gradual process, a gradual increase in severity, and it's their inability to see the changes and act upon them that I don't sympathize with at all. Oh, my husband smacked me for no reason while watching television. Nothing wrong here. Oh, he punched me in the face for walking with my shoes untied. Normal life.
QuoteIf only she could walk into court and get a divorce just like that and build a new life tomorrow, and the husband would accept the decision and not try to find and punish her.
I would think there are legal and punitive measures which law enforcement can take to prevent such things...if not, then I take it back.
I just fail to see why these women can't recognize the gradual signs. I
really can't sympathize with them in that case. Sure, I think what's being done to them is horrible. But really? You can't notice the violent changes and address then yourself before they escalate?
But whatever. I don't want to start into a several page debate on women abuse. I've had enough of these controversial-topic debates and they just end up getting my heart rate up...even on the internet.