If a woman can perform to the same standards as her male counterparts then I don't care.
I think part of the problem is that we have different standards anyways. Our DS at Fort Jackson insisted that the females not even look at the female standards and shoot for passing the male standards. There were no women PT failures at the end of BCT and even the ones that would've failed the male PT test smoked the female PT test. With more time they all would've passed the male PT test.
It might be unfair that women will have to fight using the male standards as judgement using military tactics invented by men with equipment tailor made for men, but nothing about military life is fair. They'll just have to embrace the suck with everybody else.