^ I agree, I took about two months constructing and building my own way of coming out. However, I still have not come out at work. Mainly due to the location (ie many of my co-workers are hunters/fishers type) and I think that they would not mind, but at the same time they are not accustomed to officially knowing "Oh yeah, Alex is a queer" everytime they have to give me mail or talk to me. Same with some of my family, as they are hardcore Catholic/Christians and would deem me as the "evil sinner who will burn in hell." I am officially on a ask and tell policy for all humans, regardless if they are family, friends or strangers/prospects
Of course, there are also those "DO NOT SHOW/TELL" areas, where my safety or life would be threatened.
