I didn't like it, not because it defied my fanboy expectations, but because there were too many characters and scenes that I felt were pointless. Finn and Poe - I did not care about their arc at all. The lady with purple hair and the asian girl, just rubbish characters. Cutesy moments apt for a kids film, way worse than the Ewoks (I never minded the Ewoks, at one point I understood the criticism but they are not bad at all, at least they had a purpose).
I liked The Force Awakens on a surface level, not much deeper things to it, but as an escapist fantasy with a female lead it is acceptable.