Nah nah nah, I didn't play me1 with this character. Its femshep so default is Kaidan lived.
Still, I prefer boring Kaidan to "WAHH YOU WORK FER CURBRUS I H8 U NOW WAHHH"
My main guy went with Liara in me1 but then she went all shadow brokery in me2 (before the dlc) so I figured, w/e i'll go screw Jack