Quote from: Vickers on Oct 05, 2014, 11:34:35 PM
Nobody is pretending to be the authority on diagnosing and treating human suffering. Apart from those who actually are experienced and have studied in this field. People here are simply passing on their own advice from personal experience.
I was specifically talking only about those who study and practice in these fields---they're full of shit and can hide it very well--yet it's a mistake to take this personally because being
full of shit is hardly limited to this area, and a lot of genuinely nice people are afflicted by the condition. You just smile and keep nodding in these situations.
Quote from: Vickers on Oct 05, 2014, 11:34:35 PM
Are you even realising what you're saying? Is severe depression quality of life? What are you gambling if you have nothing to gamble with? Before I went on medication I was very weary and I believed that I would become numb to everything and feel generally crappy. And then I realized I was feeling generally crappy anyway, so what did I have to lose?
If you look at people who suffer similar physical injuries or illnesses, the ones who fare better tend to be the ones in better shape to begin with.
Regarding situational mental illness, if you have eyes to see this could happen to you, then is it not gambling with one's quality of life by not taking preventative measures----that is, adopting daily habits that keep you from slowly unraveling and also by building resilience to stress?
And I know there is not much to save or much to live for when you are depressed, that is why it is depression---I was referring to the person who does have something to lose, and IS in a position to take responsibility for their own well being, outside a depressive episode, not the fleshy imposter that looks like a person during one.
Quote from: Vickers on Oct 05, 2014, 11:34:35 PM
It's really a case of someone trying different things and seeing what works for them. And sometimes medication does help a lot.
Yes, and people can get better for any and all sorts of reasons, including no apparent reason at all, but isn't it a shame most people have to be really hurt first before they'll avoid the things they already knew were hurting them?
Quote from: Cvalda on Oct 05, 2014, 11:37:38 PM
Xeno obviously has some issues
I tried therapy but ended up leaving with more issues than I began with. Something about counseling and being antisocial don't mix
Nevertheless, my issues are mine; you can't have them.
Quote from: Cvalda on Oct 05, 2014, 11:37:38 PM
but I bet he's in denial about it because he thinks other people with issues are weak ◦°˚\(*❛‿❛)/˚°◦
My weakness is weak people.