I'm with you there. Raimi's Spidey remains top dog cinematically for me, especially SM2.
The PS4 game is solid. It does borrow from the Arkham Batman games in several ways, but I honestly don't care. It's a formula that works. I've just about completed all the side quests. Most of them are mundane to be honest (grabbing backpacks, chasing pigeons, swinging through pollution clouds), but the small things are all about being the neighbourhood Spider-Man, I guess.