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Posted by FiorinaFury161
 - Dec 29, 2016, 07:29:07 PM
Quote from: Pvt. Himmel on Dec 27, 2016, 12:24:04 AM
Question: A friend who you've known for awhile has a crush on you, and you found out through a close friend that you both know!

So do you:

A) Approach him and take the next step??

Or

B) Do nothing cause you would rather not ruin the many years of friendship if the relationship goes bad??
No matter what, do not inform the crush that your friend told you. This will severely threaten trust levels between all three of y'all. A simple date is always a great starting point, my first male date was at a high end fashion mall, where we both discovered our likes and opinions without any interference. It made me a much changed and realized person after we broke it off, shame he was so darn cute, smart, educated, and now I'm getting sad talking about him :'(
Posted by Master Chief
 - Dec 29, 2016, 05:21:25 PM
Shinawi, are you a friend or more than?  We need to know.
Posted by Shinawi
 - Dec 29, 2016, 04:31:28 PM
Quote from: Gate on Dec 27, 2016, 05:27:20 AM
Quote from: Master Chief on Dec 07, 2016, 05:55:20 PM
Quote from: Shinawi on Dec 03, 2016, 01:46:26 PM
I have a question. A girl called me "bro." Did I get friend-zoned?
Consider yourself a friend and nothing more.
I've had plenty of love interests call me "bro" and other unexpected adjectives. Don't be completely discouraged, because this is relative.
Thanks.
Posted by Deadmeat
 - Dec 27, 2016, 06:13:57 PM
Quote from: Pvt. Himmel on Dec 27, 2016, 12:24:04 AM
Question: A friend who you've known for awhile has a crush on you, and you found out through a close friend that you both know!

So do you:

A) Approach him and take the next step??

Or

B) Do nothing cause you would rather not ruin the many years of friendship if the relationship goes bad??

Seems like a tricky question that can't be answered with a simple "a or b" answer. We'd have to know more about you both before giving any advice.

What are your feelings towards the guy?
What's your history with the guy?
What are both of your personalities like?
Do you have good chemistry between each other, or do you feel you have an uneven flow?
How have you dealt with disagreements in the past? How major/minor have these disagreements been?
How do each of you behave under pressure?
How secretive/honest are you with each other?
How do you deal with borders/personal space?
What are your aspirations, goals, general world view, beliefs? Are you both compatible or do you have a lot of differences?

I mean, these are only a handful of questions that can be asked to, honestly, anyone seeking a relationship. You don't have to answer these questions publicly, even. Just think them through and answer to yourself. And don't rush. Really, really think it through.

In the end we can only give you advice, dude!
Posted by Gate
 - Dec 27, 2016, 05:27:20 AM
Quote from: Master Chief on Dec 07, 2016, 05:55:20 PM
Quote from: Shinawi on Dec 03, 2016, 01:46:26 PM
I have a question. A girl called me "bro." Did I get friend-zoned?
Consider yourself a friend and nothing more.
I've had plenty of love interests call me "bro" and other unexpected adjectives. Don't be completely discouraged, because this is relative.
Posted by Pvt. Himmel
 - Dec 27, 2016, 12:24:04 AM
Question: A friend who you've known for awhile has a crush on you, and you found out through a close friend that you both know!

So do you:

A) Approach him and take the next step??

Or

B) Do nothing cause you would rather not ruin the many years of friendship if the relationship goes bad??
Posted by Master Chief
 - Dec 07, 2016, 05:55:20 PM
Quote from: Shinawi on Dec 03, 2016, 01:46:26 PM
I have a question. A girl called me "bro." Did I get friend-zoned?
Consider yourself a friend and nothing more.
Posted by Shinawi
 - Dec 07, 2016, 04:36:18 PM
Quote from: MoonerSK on Dec 04, 2016, 11:09:56 AM
There's also a chance that considering you haven't made your move yet she got the impression that you don't want to be more than friends with her. But it can very well be friendzone.
Quote from: SiL on Dec 04, 2016, 11:32:40 AM
Was it obvious you were seeking a relationship with them?
That could be it. I didn't make my move. I just talked with her a lot.

Quote from: whiterabbit on Dec 06, 2016, 10:16:25 PM
Is she an athletic chick? Cause they love to use the bronouns like bro.
She isn't. That was why I was surprised. I've known her for months and this was the first time that she called me that.
Posted by whiterabbit
 - Dec 06, 2016, 10:16:25 PM
Is she an athletic chick? Cause they love to use the bronouns like bro.
Posted by SiL
 - Dec 04, 2016, 11:32:40 AM
Was it obvious you were seeking a relationship with them?
Posted by MoonerSK
 - Dec 04, 2016, 11:09:56 AM
There's also a chance that considering you haven't made your move yet she got the impression that you don't want to be more than friends with her. But it can very well be friendzone.
Posted by Shinawi
 - Dec 04, 2016, 10:56:11 AM
Quote from: MoonerSK on Dec 03, 2016, 06:52:36 PM
Quote from: Shinawi on Dec 03, 2016, 01:46:26 PM
I have a question. A girl called me "bro." Did I get friend-zoned?

Possibly, possibly not. Depends on the girl. There are people that use "bro" all the time and in such case it trully doesn't need to mean anything it's just the way the girl is used to talk to people. You know the girl, you know the situation she used it in so you should what kind of "bro" it was. Hard to tell for me.
I've known her for months. This is the first time that she called me "bro." Also, she called me "dude" today.
Posted by MoonerSK
 - Dec 03, 2016, 06:52:36 PM
Quote from: Shinawi on Dec 03, 2016, 01:46:26 PM
I have a question. A girl called me "bro." Did I get friend-zoned?

Possibly, possibly not. Depends on the girl. There are people that use "bro" all the time and in such case it trully doesn't need to mean anything it's just the way the girl is used to talk to people. You know the girl, you know the situation she used it in so you should what kind of "bro" it was. Hard to tell for me.
Posted by Shinawi
 - Dec 03, 2016, 01:46:26 PM
I have a question. A girl called me "bro." Did I get friend-zoned?
Posted by scarhunter92
 - Dec 22, 2013, 12:20:24 PM
Quote from: underbound on Dec 22, 2013, 06:33:49 AM
Wait,so this thread talks about help go starting a relationship or supporting one?

Everything feels related.
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