If you can point to the last time we've seen a sex scene like that one in a mainstream summer sci-fi blockbuster - which goes from a drunken, nasty argument with one party slapping the other one and the other guy forcing himself, then it turns consensual - then yes, I will call it that. It's hardly Gaspar Noe or Lars von Trier, it's very tame by comparison, but it definitely has a lot more bite than most of the mainstream genre shit we see out there lately, in terms of human relations vs. bug-eyed monsters. Most people are far more comfortable with the bug eyed monsters and vaginal horror.
The answer as to who would call him misogynistic is: "No one sane." But as I said, that would never have stopped the Internet.